kink diary

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Built for Output

    I’ve always found it fascinating how the beliefs we hold about ourselves are often formed long before we have the ability to question them. Somewhere along the way—maybe in childhood,…
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    The Control Conundrum

      When I think back to my journey in kink, I like to consider my approach. Generally, some people see it as an extension of their vanilla lives, while others compartmentalize…
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